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Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Friday, August 16, 2013
Teething and a Cold
Poor little E has been teething for months, finally almost two weeks ago one little tooth cut through. Many of our friends recommended using a Baltic amber teething necklace. We had been given a beautiful one as a baby gift by my Aunt. Sadly at swimming lessons the other day a bunch of stuff feel from my diaper bag, I didn't think twice to check for the necklace. We checked the house to be sure we didn't misplace it here, but I knew it disappeared at the pool. Call me hopeful. We phoned the pool, no luck, it hasn't been turned in. So now E has lovely bright red cheeks.
On top of this tooth, E has got a bit of a cold. At family camp she heard someone cough, and she imitated it all week. Now she has a bit of a runny nose, and a true little cough. Though, I thankfully have not heard the cough except for this morning when she first got up.
She is not her usual feisty self when it comes to fighting about going down for a nap. This morning's, she just crashed and slept for an hour and a half. She woke up happy, and just played with her fish tank you that hangs on the crib, and her stuffed dog that plays music. She is not wanting to eat solid food, but will still gladly have a bottle.
Still happy, and playing, not a major grump. We are praying it goes away fast. Probably won't be going to church again this Sunday, don't want to pass the cold on to anyone else's little love. For now it's even more cuddles to make her feel better.
On top of this tooth, E has got a bit of a cold. At family camp she heard someone cough, and she imitated it all week. Now she has a bit of a runny nose, and a true little cough. Though, I thankfully have not heard the cough except for this morning when she first got up.
She is not her usual feisty self when it comes to fighting about going down for a nap. This morning's, she just crashed and slept for an hour and a half. She woke up happy, and just played with her fish tank you that hangs on the crib, and her stuffed dog that plays music. She is not wanting to eat solid food, but will still gladly have a bottle.
Still happy, and playing, not a major grump. We are praying it goes away fast. Probably won't be going to church again this Sunday, don't want to pass the cold on to anyone else's little love. For now it's even more cuddles to make her feel better.
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Summer Vacation
Sure we have been away as a family once already this summer, but it wasn't really as family vacation as we were volunteering at a summer camp. Finally the week came for our family vacation. We stuffed the car full, installed the new car seat, and hit the road early one morning to get to family camp.
Its become a bit of a tradition for my side of the family to rent a Girl Guide camp in Kelowna, sure we've missed the odd summer because there have been no dates available. But still, this is always a memory-making vacation when it does happen. This time we had our little one to join in the fun, what a different experience.
Sure its not camping in the true sense, it works though. Especially when you have a little one who is on bottles. Everyone got their own rooms in the dorm building, our little family got the big room that had whales painted on the walls. Little goober did not nap the whole drive there, so after a four hour drive, and a visit to her Grandparents in Kelowna, she was an exhausted grumpy butt.
First order of things was to unpack as fast as possible and get her down for a nap. Everly had other plans. She refused to nap, as soon as we put her in the packnplay she was moving and upset. We dont blame her, it was a new place, and hot! Thankfully she finally settled into her Daddy's arms and just crashed for a good hour or more. The bonus was Daddy got a nap in too. Thus began the routine of not wanting a nap all week, she'd only sleep in our arms. Thankfully Jason figured out she would sleep in the stroller so all naps were spent in the stroller the rest of the week which was fine with us. She was happy and cozy in there.
We got to enjoy summer this past week. S'mores were had (even with a camp fire ban, thats what the oven is for, right?), boat rides, sun burns, baseball games, many card games played, lots of swimming.
Best of all was how much love was heaped on Everly. I fear she may go through some with drawl of all the attention. She is so loved by so many. This was the best part, family.
All of it just reminds me of memories I have growing up, soon Everly will be making her own memories, for now this will be one we keep for her always and get to tell her all about and show her photos of.
Oh, and Everly loved being on the boat. She was so happy there, several times it would rock her to sleep and she'd nap for a few minutes. The on going comment all week was that she should go for a tube ride. The last evening after dinner, we took her out. It was the slowest ride ever, but she loved it. My Aunt has photos and video of the ride I'll have to get my hands on. Everly also tried two other new things. She figured out how to pull herself up on things, and she also attempted to try to stand on her own, thankfully she chickened out of that after realizing she would topple over when she lifted her second hand off the ground. We may have an early walker, we'll see how determined she is.
Hope everyone else has been enjoying their summer. We were actually very happy to have some cool weather, and rain at the start of today. We're ready for fall now.
Sure its not camping in the true sense, it works though. Especially when you have a little one who is on bottles. Everyone got their own rooms in the dorm building, our little family got the big room that had whales painted on the walls. Little goober did not nap the whole drive there, so after a four hour drive, and a visit to her Grandparents in Kelowna, she was an exhausted grumpy butt.
First order of things was to unpack as fast as possible and get her down for a nap. Everly had other plans. She refused to nap, as soon as we put her in the packnplay she was moving and upset. We dont blame her, it was a new place, and hot! Thankfully she finally settled into her Daddy's arms and just crashed for a good hour or more. The bonus was Daddy got a nap in too. Thus began the routine of not wanting a nap all week, she'd only sleep in our arms. Thankfully Jason figured out she would sleep in the stroller so all naps were spent in the stroller the rest of the week which was fine with us. She was happy and cozy in there.
All of it just reminds me of memories I have growing up, soon Everly will be making her own memories, for now this will be one we keep for her always and get to tell her all about and show her photos of.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Vancouver Sun Run
I have been thinking about setting a goal for myself, and also crossing something off my bucket list.
Jason and I recently started going for jogs to get out of the house with Everly. For some reason the crazy idea of doing the Sun Run came to my mind. Jason has done the run before. I've never been a big fan of running, but I think this will be an interesting goal for me and it goes with my goal of getting into shape.
Jason asked if I really wanted to do the Sun Run, I said yes. He asked if there was something else I'd like to try, thinking maybe a shorter run. I said no, the only other run I'd be interested in doing is the Tinkerbell Run in Disneyland... yeah, that one is not an option. I am not winning the battle to go to Disneyland any time soon.
By writing it on here I'm officially challenging myself to do the Sun Run this coming April. Jason said he will do it with me, and Everly is coming too. We'll be taking her in a jogging stroller, which means we wont be starting til the the last wave of people. I am extremely nervous, the thought of this goal actually really intimidates me, but I want to at least try!
The jogging stroller we do have, we bought used for cheap, and it is just that. Those of you who do run/jog with little ones what is your go to jogging stroller?
Wish me luck! Now that we are back home from a little family vacation, its time to get back to jogging as a family for this crazy goal.
Jason and I recently started going for jogs to get out of the house with Everly. For some reason the crazy idea of doing the Sun Run came to my mind. Jason has done the run before. I've never been a big fan of running, but I think this will be an interesting goal for me and it goes with my goal of getting into shape.
Jason asked if I really wanted to do the Sun Run, I said yes. He asked if there was something else I'd like to try, thinking maybe a shorter run. I said no, the only other run I'd be interested in doing is the Tinkerbell Run in Disneyland... yeah, that one is not an option. I am not winning the battle to go to Disneyland any time soon.
By writing it on here I'm officially challenging myself to do the Sun Run this coming April. Jason said he will do it with me, and Everly is coming too. We'll be taking her in a jogging stroller, which means we wont be starting til the the last wave of people. I am extremely nervous, the thought of this goal actually really intimidates me, but I want to at least try!
The jogging stroller we do have, we bought used for cheap, and it is just that. Those of you who do run/jog with little ones what is your go to jogging stroller?
Wish me luck! Now that we are back home from a little family vacation, its time to get back to jogging as a family for this crazy goal.
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Little Moments
Everly had two little moments today that I want to remember.
She got to try out the swing set her Grandad built for her in the back yard of their home today. We had bought her a swing several months ago, but it needed something to hang from. A frame was built, and we finally had the chance to go over and give it a try.
She was very calm and did not freak out. Which honestly, I expected some crying as she was never a big fan of the infant swing at home. Her favourite part had to be the bright yellow straps that she could chew on. Silly girl.
We are looking forward to many more visits and her getting to use the swing there.
Everly did her best crawling today. She was enjoying pushing a box around that we had in the front entry way when she noticed Daddy sitting on the stairs, she quickly got over to the stairs and decided to try and get up them. She had no luck in getting up them, since Mommy had put her in a dress today. But she sure did give it her best try. Note to self - put up the baby gate.
It seems we have a very determined little girl on our hands, and we have a feeling she is going to be an early walker.
Thursday, August 1, 2013
Hungry Hungry Everly
Everly already seems to be a fan of food. We started her on "solids" early after it was suggested by her doctors as a way to see if it would help the reflux issue. She has watched anyone eating around her like a hawk since about 4 months.
We started her off with avocado and then proceeded with veggies. She got her first taste of fruit when we visited boys camp at Anvil. She tried some applesauce and loved it. We have tried a few other fruits and meats and she is not a big fan of them. I don't really mind if she is like her Daddy, and a big fan of veggies. Nothing compares to the reaction we got to rice cereal.
Jason was at work when I decided to let her give it a try. I really wish I had filmed some of it on video. She hated the stuff. I eventually surrendered and just let her play in it and let her practice using her spoon. She likes to hold the spoon backwards, whatever makes her happy. She had a great time just making a mess.
My favourite was when she held out her spoon as if victorious over the battle against rice cereal, and then chucked her spoon to the floor. This thankfully happened after I had cleaned her up. So much personality in one little girl. Next time we try rice cereal I am going to mix it in with something to see if that improves things for her. Otherwise its onto millet and oat cereal.
We started her off with avocado and then proceeded with veggies. She got her first taste of fruit when we visited boys camp at Anvil. She tried some applesauce and loved it. We have tried a few other fruits and meats and she is not a big fan of them. I don't really mind if she is like her Daddy, and a big fan of veggies. Nothing compares to the reaction we got to rice cereal.
Jason was at work when I decided to let her give it a try. I really wish I had filmed some of it on video. She hated the stuff. I eventually surrendered and just let her play in it and let her practice using her spoon. She likes to hold the spoon backwards, whatever makes her happy. She had a great time just making a mess.
My favourite was when she held out her spoon as if victorious over the battle against rice cereal, and then chucked her spoon to the floor. This thankfully happened after I had cleaned her up. So much personality in one little girl. Next time we try rice cereal I am going to mix it in with something to see if that improves things for her. Otherwise its onto millet and oat cereal.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Barium Swallow Test
Everly got an appointment for the barium swallow test much faster than we expected. After talking about it we decided to keep the appointment. This morning Everly and I headed to the hospital bright and early for her test. She had not eaten since her feed before bed last night. She was a bit of a grump this morning, but was alright because she loves to just play on her own for a bit before eating in the morning any ways.
The staff were great with her. When I was called with her appointment they had not said to bring her own bottle, or to withhold her first meal. For some reason I went with my gut and did not feed her this morning, and I brought an empty bottle (and her breakfast in another bottle) with me. The tech was thankful because its easier to do the test when little ones are hungry and have an empty tummy. The tech was also happy to see I'd brought an empty bottle so that we could use that one for the test. If kids are used to a certain type of bottle its better to stick with what they know.
She did great during the test. She was had her arms and legs strapped down so that she could not flail during the test. She was attached to a device that can rotate for the images needed. She was turned all sorts of directions during the test. While everything was happening I had to feed her the bottle of barium. That was the heaviest bottle I have ever held. Since she was hungry she had no problem drinking enough of it for them to get the images they needed.
The tech and Doctor were shocked to hear she is my first child, apparently most first time parents tend to not be so calm during this test if their little one needs it, and then they have upset little ones during the test. Like I told my Mom, there was no point in my being upset or Everly would sense that and then be upset. She did get a little grumpy at one point but I said we'd go visit Grammie-poo after and she settled right down.
Now we wait to hear the official results. The doctor did say there was obvious signs of reflux - - I really felt like saying "No, really? That's not why we are here." but I bit my tongue. -- the doctor is going to look closely at the images to see if he can find a reason why there is the reflux.
Everly had a good little visit with her Grammie-poo after, and happily had her regular bottle after to help wash out all of the other stuff. I am so thankful for such an easy going little one, it made things so much easier this morning.
The staff were great with her. When I was called with her appointment they had not said to bring her own bottle, or to withhold her first meal. For some reason I went with my gut and did not feed her this morning, and I brought an empty bottle (and her breakfast in another bottle) with me. The tech was thankful because its easier to do the test when little ones are hungry and have an empty tummy. The tech was also happy to see I'd brought an empty bottle so that we could use that one for the test. If kids are used to a certain type of bottle its better to stick with what they know.
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| All ready to go, strapped down so she cant flail her arms and legs. |
The tech and Doctor were shocked to hear she is my first child, apparently most first time parents tend to not be so calm during this test if their little one needs it, and then they have upset little ones during the test. Like I told my Mom, there was no point in my being upset or Everly would sense that and then be upset. She did get a little grumpy at one point but I said we'd go visit Grammie-poo after and she settled right down.
Now we wait to hear the official results. The doctor did say there was obvious signs of reflux - - I really felt like saying "No, really? That's not why we are here." but I bit my tongue. -- the doctor is going to look closely at the images to see if he can find a reason why there is the reflux.
Everly had a good little visit with her Grammie-poo after, and happily had her regular bottle after to help wash out all of the other stuff. I am so thankful for such an easy going little one, it made things so much easier this morning.
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| She got the stuff all over her face, she likes to move her head and look around when having a bottle. |
Monday, July 29, 2013
Enjoying
This week I am on my own with Everly during the day. Jason is working at the office. I will be enjoying a lot of randomness, and probably a few moments of wanting to just sit down and cry. Everly and I are just going to have some fun this week, and try to relax.
The house work may or may not get done - - I already scrubbed the kitchen, living room, and entry way floors - - and there may be toys exploded every where. I am trying to not care. I am trying to just enjoy being a Mom this week. Its something I kind of feel robbed of.
I wish I had taken more time to just soak in the fact that I had become a Mom when Everly made her grand entrance. I wish I had said no to people, and said no to going places. I wish we had just stayed at home and cuddled with her more. I feel I was robbed of her being a newborn, and just getting to enjoy that moment that passes in the blink of an eye.
Forgive me while I enjoy the cuddles, smiles, cries of joy and sadness, and so much more from my little girl. This week Everly has my whole attention.
The juggling of things will figure itself out this week.
I have a 7 month old.
She's pretty amazing.
Wow.
The house work may or may not get done - - I already scrubbed the kitchen, living room, and entry way floors - - and there may be toys exploded every where. I am trying to not care. I am trying to just enjoy being a Mom this week. Its something I kind of feel robbed of.
I wish I had taken more time to just soak in the fact that I had become a Mom when Everly made her grand entrance. I wish I had said no to people, and said no to going places. I wish we had just stayed at home and cuddled with her more. I feel I was robbed of her being a newborn, and just getting to enjoy that moment that passes in the blink of an eye.
Forgive me while I enjoy the cuddles, smiles, cries of joy and sadness, and so much more from my little girl. This week Everly has my whole attention.
The juggling of things will figure itself out this week.
I have a 7 month old.
She's pretty amazing.
Wow.
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Trying to...
Stand! Everly has recently started to try and pull herself up on things. Basically any surface she can grab. She hasn't figured it out just yet. Thankfully we did put her crib down to the lower level before she started doing this. If she is anything like her Mom and Aunties, she will flip over the edge of that railing eventually. We'd rather it be much later when she has a bit more control of what she is doing. Guess we have some more baby proofing to do.
First Certificate
Everly got her first certificate on Friday. She completed her swimming lessons. We had a great experience with her swimming lessons. We highly recommend the ones at Surrey Sports and Leisure. We even have Everly signed up for lessons again in August, mostly because its a great way for all of us to get into the pool and out of the heat. If anyone wants to join in look into it, we're doing the evening lessons.
The lessons for the youngsters include a lot of singing, and activities to just get them used to the water, if you are brave enough they teach you how to get your little one used to putting their face under the water too. It was also nice to learn some water safety things too.
The lessons for the youngsters include a lot of singing, and activities to just get them used to the water, if you are brave enough they teach you how to get your little one used to putting their face under the water too. It was also nice to learn some water safety things too.
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Day Trips
We were able to get into two mini day trips recently, thanks to Jason have a stretch off from work with how his schedule worked recently. It was a nice change from just staying around home.
Friends of ours were camping out at Cultus Lake and we asked if it would be okay for us to join them for a bit of one of their days out there. We headed out after Everly's morning nap, we were not sure how she would do for napping when out there so we wanted to get one decent nap in. We arrived to their camp site after 1pm. It was hot that day but not too bad since their camp site was nice and shaded by all the trees. Their oldest son was having a great time playing in his splash pool they brought. I love how care free he is, he was just enjoying splashing in the water and didn't mind at all that he was getting his feet and legs covered in dirt and mud.
We brought the packnplay with us, to give Everly somewhere to play. She is at the fun phase of anything and everything that makes it into her hands will go into her mouth. At one point, our friends oldest joined her in the there. Its great seeing a friendship start this early. He has always been so kind towards her, towards all kids really.
A bunch of us went for a walk down to the lake, some braved the water (there is a swimmers itch warning currently) and the rest of us relaxed in the shade. It was not that busy out on the lake, probably because it was a work day. Everly and her buddy both fell asleep in their strollers and had their afternoon naps in their strollers.
A round or two of Monopoly Deal (aka the marriage wrecker) was played, and dinner made over a fire was enjoyed with of course some s'mores to wrap it all up. It was great to visit with friends, and just get away from home even just for a little bit. This day trip just makes us look forward to taking Everly camping in the future so much more, next summer for sure!
That evening we ended up staying up late waiting for confirmation that we could go to Anvil for the day to visit. We got word late, but we were happy that it all worked out. We rushed to finish rounding up what we'd need for leaving in the morning so that we could get a few extra minutes of sleep as we needed to get out to Lions Bay by 8am. Everly was a trooper getting woken up earlier than normal and packed into her car seat. Thankfully she did get a little bit more sleep on the drive out there but not much, she loves to watch what is going on around her. We made one pit stop to grab coffee and timbits to bring with us to the island. We were enlightened to the fact that Timmy's has 10cup travel packs of coffee when one was brought to us after Everly arrived... those things are awesome!!!
This was her first time on a smaller, faster boat. We put her in her little life jacket for safety of course. She enjoyed the ride over, held tight in her Dad's arms. Again I found myself thankful for our cheap jogger stroller, we brought it with us again to Anvil and it came in handy taking munchkin and her stuff around.
It was great to see a bunch of the campers I have gotten to know over the past two summers of being a part of camp 4 at Anvil, several remembered I had been pregnant last summer and were excited to see Everly. Everly was not alone, there were 2 other munchkins who are up at the camp for the whole week. It was great to meet the other two little ones.
Jason was happy to get to play some sports and relax. I always just love being at Anvil, it is my home away from home. We took Everly down to the beach and she got to go in the ocean again, this time we actually got photos. She was not impressed when a wave crashed up near her and splashed her in the face, but rocks are apparently yummy. There was a staff soccer game, we enjoyed watching on the side lines.
We may have found a sippy cup that Everly likes. Our friends let us a try one of theirs that they use with their little girl after being on the hunt for one themselves and being told about this one. Its pretty neat, since it has a weighted straw the goes with the liquid. Everly wanted to just chew on the straw at first, but eventually figured it out. With practice we may have a little girl who can use a sippy cup that has a straw soon.
The boat ride back was bumpy, not the worst I have ever had, but bumpy. To the point where other passengers asked if it be possible to slow down for Everly. She was grumpy not because of the bumps but because she was tired. She ended up falling asleep! It used to be that we'd take the bumpiest roads to get her to fall asleep, seems its possible still for that trick to work.
Had a bit of an adventure during the drive home. The vehicle in front of us hit something metal, sadly we were not able to swerve and miss it, we ended up hitting it too. Both vehicles ended up on the side of the highway with flat tires. We were concerned that the rim may have been damaged too, and we saw liquid gush out the bottom of the car too when we pulled over and got out to look. We are thankful that there is construction going on because it meant safety vehicles were driving the road and we quickly had a truck parked behind us with arrows flashing. We called BCAA and had them change the tire for us. We weren't sure if we'd be able to drive the car back, but the BCAA worker was certain it was just the AC having liquid go on the ground which is normal on hot days. We had originally called my parents to come grab me and Everly, and then changed that plan to getting Jason's brother to grab us because he was working just a bit down the highway. Thankfully we were able to drive ourselves home. Some how during all that craziness Everly kept on sleeping, she didn't wake up until we were getting back in the car to drive slowly home.
It was a fun filled two days. We had a great time hanging out with friends. Definitely need to do more day trips or mini adventures to places... any suggestions?
Friends of ours were camping out at Cultus Lake and we asked if it would be okay for us to join them for a bit of one of their days out there. We headed out after Everly's morning nap, we were not sure how she would do for napping when out there so we wanted to get one decent nap in. We arrived to their camp site after 1pm. It was hot that day but not too bad since their camp site was nice and shaded by all the trees. Their oldest son was having a great time playing in his splash pool they brought. I love how care free he is, he was just enjoying splashing in the water and didn't mind at all that he was getting his feet and legs covered in dirt and mud.
That evening we ended up staying up late waiting for confirmation that we could go to Anvil for the day to visit. We got word late, but we were happy that it all worked out. We rushed to finish rounding up what we'd need for leaving in the morning so that we could get a few extra minutes of sleep as we needed to get out to Lions Bay by 8am. Everly was a trooper getting woken up earlier than normal and packed into her car seat. Thankfully she did get a little bit more sleep on the drive out there but not much, she loves to watch what is going on around her. We made one pit stop to grab coffee and timbits to bring with us to the island. We were enlightened to the fact that Timmy's has 10cup travel packs of coffee when one was brought to us after Everly arrived... those things are awesome!!!
It was great to see a bunch of the campers I have gotten to know over the past two summers of being a part of camp 4 at Anvil, several remembered I had been pregnant last summer and were excited to see Everly. Everly was not alone, there were 2 other munchkins who are up at the camp for the whole week. It was great to meet the other two little ones.
We may have found a sippy cup that Everly likes. Our friends let us a try one of theirs that they use with their little girl after being on the hunt for one themselves and being told about this one. Its pretty neat, since it has a weighted straw the goes with the liquid. Everly wanted to just chew on the straw at first, but eventually figured it out. With practice we may have a little girl who can use a sippy cup that has a straw soon.
Had a bit of an adventure during the drive home. The vehicle in front of us hit something metal, sadly we were not able to swerve and miss it, we ended up hitting it too. Both vehicles ended up on the side of the highway with flat tires. We were concerned that the rim may have been damaged too, and we saw liquid gush out the bottom of the car too when we pulled over and got out to look. We are thankful that there is construction going on because it meant safety vehicles were driving the road and we quickly had a truck parked behind us with arrows flashing. We called BCAA and had them change the tire for us. We weren't sure if we'd be able to drive the car back, but the BCAA worker was certain it was just the AC having liquid go on the ground which is normal on hot days. We had originally called my parents to come grab me and Everly, and then changed that plan to getting Jason's brother to grab us because he was working just a bit down the highway. Thankfully we were able to drive ourselves home. Some how during all that craziness Everly kept on sleeping, she didn't wake up until we were getting back in the car to drive slowly home.
It was a fun filled two days. We had a great time hanging out with friends. Definitely need to do more day trips or mini adventures to places... any suggestions?
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Everly Update
I took Everly to her appointment this afternoon. After my Facebook update about being nervous I had a few people send words of encouragement, and an offer to come with that I didn't see until it was too late... thank you for the offer.
After updating the doctor on what is going on, and a bit of a check up on Everly, we discussed what the next steps could be.
The doctor would like us to try another medication to see if it helps. A Barium Swallow Test is also being scheduled. The test is the last resort to check if she does have any abnormalities to her digestive system. It is invasive for a little one as it does require imaging and that means radiation exposure. Yes, it's slight but the doctor likes to avoid this if the medication works, for obvious reasons.
We are still deciding what steps we want to take. Prayer is appreciated, thank you to those who sent words of support and encouragement our way.
After updating the doctor on what is going on, and a bit of a check up on Everly, we discussed what the next steps could be.
The doctor would like us to try another medication to see if it helps. A Barium Swallow Test is also being scheduled. The test is the last resort to check if she does have any abnormalities to her digestive system. It is invasive for a little one as it does require imaging and that means radiation exposure. Yes, it's slight but the doctor likes to avoid this if the medication works, for obvious reasons.
We are still deciding what steps we want to take. Prayer is appreciated, thank you to those who sent words of support and encouragement our way.
Swimming Lessons
We do have a full class of about 9+ little ones depending on how many show up for the class that day. The girls are outnumbered there are 3 girls, and depending on how many show up as many as 9 boys in the class. I was really nervous yesterday for the very first lesson as I just was not sure what to expect. I relaxed almost instantly when I saw who was going to be leading the class, I recognized the person right away. I was certain that her instructor was a former camper of mine from Anvil. Sure enough at the end of the lesson I was able to confirm this, for whatever reason this just makes me feel even better about the lessons as I know she has a huge heart for little ones.
They are learning to enter the water when they are instructed to by their parents, how to kick, how to blow bubbles, and so much more.
Jason and I had agreed a long time ago that we wanted our kids to start swimming lessons as soon as possible, we both feel that learning water safety and how to swim are really important. We want our kids to have the ability to swim if ever needed. We also want them to enjoy playing in the water and not have a fear of it. 6 months almost seems like the perfect age to start as Everly is so willing to try different things, but she does still let us know if she does not like something.
It seems we have a water loving baby on our hands, which didn't surprise us with how much she splashes in the tub at bath time. Even the instructor commented on how much she seems to enjoy playing in the pool. She kicks like a little froggy. Today, the instructor had the parents put a rubber ducky in the water and get their kids to swim to it. Everly really enjoyed this game, and caught on very quickly.
We're looking forward to all of her lessons, and its already proven to be a great excuse to go to the pool and cool off with the hot weather this week.
Saturday, July 13, 2013
Visiting the Zoo
A bunch of us decided to get together and go to the zoo this morning. We are very thankful that a friend of ours was able to get us a coupon to go in with free admission for one person with one paid admission. Much more reasonable than paying for two adults, the prices at the zoo are a little ridiculous. We paid less to go to the Honolulu Zoo and it is much bigger with way more animals, however that being said, the Great Vancouver zoo is more of a conservatory which is something you do have to remind yourself about when you go. Probably won't be going again until we either have an Aquarium membership and can get a discount, or we get another coupon.
I was looking forward to going, as I had not been to the zoo since I was in elementary school. I believe it was Jason's first time there, and it definitely was Everly's first time going. We all met up bright and early inside the front entrance. There were 4 sets of families, all toting strollers and diaper bags. We were a sight to be seen. For some reason the scene of all the dad's in a row with their kids, and strollers from the movie "What to Expect When You're Expecting" kept coming to mind. It was a smart choice to go for right when the zoo opened as it was not overly busy, and there was lots of parking still. At one point Jason and I found ourselves asking "where is everyone else?" as it never seemed busy, but by the time we left after 12:30pm, the parking lot was getting full and there was a line up to get in.
Everly usually goes down for a nap at the time we decided to meet up. She fought her nap for most of the morning, too much going on around her. I don't blame her either for wanting to see what is going on. I have a feeling I have a little one who will end up dropping to one nap earlier than most. We tried everything to get her to sleep, and then we repeated the process again. Finally she surrendered to her need for sleep, and zonked out in the stroller just after 11am. She did get to see a good chunk of the animals and reptiles at the zoo.
It was great seeing the reactions of our friend's kids. Kids always seem to have such a love for animals. Their excitement always makes outings like this worth while! I love having such a close group of friends with little ones, who will grow up together and make many memories like this together.
Jason's highlight of the day was getting to see a bit of the falcon show at the end, we were about to leave when we saw it was going on. It was amazing to see how fast a falcon can fly, and how quick they are to try and catch their prey.
We headed home after a little over 3 hours of being there. Happy with our little visit.
Now to master transferring a sleeping baby back into her car seat.
Everly usually goes down for a nap at the time we decided to meet up. She fought her nap for most of the morning, too much going on around her. I don't blame her either for wanting to see what is going on. I have a feeling I have a little one who will end up dropping to one nap earlier than most. We tried everything to get her to sleep, and then we repeated the process again. Finally she surrendered to her need for sleep, and zonked out in the stroller just after 11am. She did get to see a good chunk of the animals and reptiles at the zoo.
It was great seeing the reactions of our friend's kids. Kids always seem to have such a love for animals. Their excitement always makes outings like this worth while! I love having such a close group of friends with little ones, who will grow up together and make many memories like this together.
Now to master transferring a sleeping baby back into her car seat.
Thursday, July 11, 2013
Half Birthday Girl and the Birthday Boy!
Tonight we celebrated Everly's half birthday, she turned 6 months old the day before camp at Anvil. That day was a little chaotic with Jason working, a chiropractor appointment, running around getting last minute items, doing laundry, and packing. We were able to sneak in her 6 month photo.
Jason celebrated his 28th birthday yesterday! Wow has a lot changed since we started dating when he was 21. We have now been married for 3 years, and are blessed to have a home to call our own that is now filled with the cries and tummy filled giggles of our beautiful daughter. She has brought so much joy into our home.
I decided to make a cake to celebrate Everly's half birthday and Jason's birthday, Jason had no say in colour as I just used what food colouring I had in the cupboard.
Everly got right into the cake, she had no qualms about getting her hands covered and diving in. Which wasn't supposed to happen, we just wanted to get a photo of her near the cake. Seems we'll have no problem with her doing a cake smash when she turns a year old. When that time comes though, her cake will be made a little differently, with whip cream instead of icing because little ones do not need all that sugar. Though I'm sure she'd love that.
Happy half birthday to my sweet little girl.
Happy 28th birthday to my best friend, loving husband, and wonderful father to my daughter!
Love you both so much.
The Car Seat Hunt
Everly is a tall girl. She is growing like a weed and we are now finding ourselves in the car seat hunt. Everly just recently has stopped fitting into a bunch of sleepers again, I think she has grown another inch which means we need to get the next car seat pronto!
Jason is almost an obsessive researcher when it comes to purchasing anything really. Thankfully in Canada they do all the hard work when it comes to safety for us. Really you can buy any car seat and know it meets the safety requirements and then some, its more so a matter of finding one that fits in the car.
However this still has not stopped us from wanting to learn more. We have put it out there on our Facebook before asking others which car seats they got next, after their little ones out grew the infant car seats. Diono and Britax were the first ones to always be mentioned, recently Foonf was a brand also mentioned to us. We'd never heard anything about the last brand before. We have also considered going to an "in between seat", which would be something like a Britax Marathon, and then farther in the future switching again to a different seat. Lots to think about.
I am really indecisive when it comes to things, Jason tends to be as well. Its probably why we research things to death. We also tend to disagree on things, such as paint colour, or couch styles. Most recently we finally agreed on a clock to get for the living room (we've been looking for a clock since we got married!).
We do plan on having our children rear face for a while. So that is something we are looking into as well, especially since Everly seems like she is going to keep getting tall very quickly. We are looking for a seat we can keep rear facing for longer based on her height especially, as well as weight. Sure extended rear facing is not something everyone agrees on, but after researching it and seeing more and more info on internal decapitation when a child is switched to forward facing too early, we want to keep our kids rear facing as long as possible. Yes they might not like having to cross their legs, I would rather them learn to deal with that, then to deal with heart ache and guilt of injuries in an accident if we were to switch to forward facing too early.
Now we just need to make the trek to the other side of the bridge to try out several car seats at Baby's World. This is our go to store to check things out as they are great about letting you try car seats out in your car to see what instillation and spacing is like. We also went there to try out strollers to see which we liked, and how they packed into the car.
It will all come down to ease of instillation, fit in our SUV, and fit for Everly now and as she gets older.
Jason is almost an obsessive researcher when it comes to purchasing anything really. Thankfully in Canada they do all the hard work when it comes to safety for us. Really you can buy any car seat and know it meets the safety requirements and then some, its more so a matter of finding one that fits in the car.
However this still has not stopped us from wanting to learn more. We have put it out there on our Facebook before asking others which car seats they got next, after their little ones out grew the infant car seats. Diono and Britax were the first ones to always be mentioned, recently Foonf was a brand also mentioned to us. We'd never heard anything about the last brand before. We have also considered going to an "in between seat", which would be something like a Britax Marathon, and then farther in the future switching again to a different seat. Lots to think about.
I am really indecisive when it comes to things, Jason tends to be as well. Its probably why we research things to death. We also tend to disagree on things, such as paint colour, or couch styles. Most recently we finally agreed on a clock to get for the living room (we've been looking for a clock since we got married!).
We do plan on having our children rear face for a while. So that is something we are looking into as well, especially since Everly seems like she is going to keep getting tall very quickly. We are looking for a seat we can keep rear facing for longer based on her height especially, as well as weight. Sure extended rear facing is not something everyone agrees on, but after researching it and seeing more and more info on internal decapitation when a child is switched to forward facing too early, we want to keep our kids rear facing as long as possible. Yes they might not like having to cross their legs, I would rather them learn to deal with that, then to deal with heart ache and guilt of injuries in an accident if we were to switch to forward facing too early.
Now we just need to make the trek to the other side of the bridge to try out several car seats at Baby's World. This is our go to store to check things out as they are great about letting you try car seats out in your car to see what instillation and spacing is like. We also went there to try out strollers to see which we liked, and how they packed into the car.
It will all come down to ease of instillation, fit in our SUV, and fit for Everly now and as she gets older.
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
I need Mary Poppins
I don't know why, but today I feel like I may go absolutely insane.
Though I have gotten a few things done. I feel overwhelmed by everything... I think its just one of those days where everything will send me over the edge... plus shopping SUCKS!!!!!
I hate trying to find new clothing sometimes. All I want is a new pair of capri pants because the ones I have are either maternity and I don't want to wear them anymore or are now 4 years old and have holes in them. Toss in bra shopping and then I am beyond grumpy.
Why do all plus size clothing options have to be so boxy, I have curves I would like to show them off. However some modesty without looking like a fridge box would be amazing. Its either boobs-r-us, or fridge box!
Where is Mary Poppins when I need her to snap her fingers and have everything go back in its place?
My house still looks like a volcano exploded post Anvil. We are having a birthday bbq at our place this weekend and I feel like I'll never have our house presentable for it, so thankful right now that most of the bbq will be outside (praying for sun!).
The car has been taken over by spiders on the outside, they decided to make it home while we were away. Jason I am leaving this one for you to deal with! I loath spiders!
Goober does not want to nap today. It has been battle of the nap all day. She has put up a good fight, but I will win. Thus far I have won, as she has now been napping for more than 5 minutes. Sweetheart a 5 minute power nap will not do, you are beyond exhausted... and so am I. I am going to bed early tonight if possible.
*rant over*
Bring on diaper laundry to help me process and relax, I don't know why but stuffing the diapers after they have been washed is almost therapeutic. I get a lot of thinking done then, maybe I'll have a plan of attack after.
Tuesday, July 9, 2013
Why at home?
I am so confused and trying to figure this out. Everly was able to go without a bib almost all of the time at Anvil. Why? Why is it that now we are home we are having more throw up and projectile moments? Is there something I am missing?
We have the same routine as when we were there. Maybe all that fresh air did her some good? She only had two moments the time we were at Anvil.
It breaks my heart because she was so happy last week. It has gotten to a point where she notices that it is happening and she is sad when it happens.
I am waiting now for her appointment with the pediatrician again, needless to say I am putting my foot down and will have a Mommy freak out moment if need be. I want her sent to Children's for further testing my gut is telling me that there is something else going on here. My gut has been telling me that since its started, 6+ months of this is enough. We asked about Children's at her 6 month check up.
I am waiting now for her appointment with the pediatrician again, needless to say I am putting my foot down and will have a Mommy freak out moment if need be. I want her sent to Children's for further testing my gut is telling me that there is something else going on here. My gut has been telling me that since its started, 6+ months of this is enough. We asked about Children's at her 6 month check up.
My daughter should not be getting sad because she is having these moments, it is now impacting her daily life. I don't care if my daughter is "thriving". Yes she is growing but that is most likely because she is supplemented with formula, the doctors have said before that is more than likely the reason she is growing. Now she is also having the bonus of solids, but that is not helping, it just makes those moments more disgusting for her and for us.
Praying we get called for her appointment soon. I am calling now!
*We now have an appointment next week with the pediatrician... we wait and pray for answers*
*We now have an appointment next week with the pediatrician... we wait and pray for answers*
Date Night
I asked my Mom last minute if she could come over this evening and watch Everly for us. No, it is not the most last minute we have requested her baby sitting skills... that one came with an hour and a half request. We are very thankful for her willingness to come and watch her granddaughter.
Jason's birthday is this week and he is still in recovery mode from camp last week, toss in the hot weather and he is a bit of a grumpy butt. This morning I thought a movie might be a good way to cheer him up, especially if its a movie that will surely get him to laugh.
We are going out to see Despicable Me 2 tonight! We both loved the first movie, and have heard good things about this one. Air conditioning, and a movie date night... sounds good to both of us!
What are some other summer date ideas? I'll have to be more strategic in planning to get advance baby sitting requests in to others. Would love to have some more ideas. Especially budget friendly ideas, and even baby friendly ideas if they work for taking her with us!
Jason's birthday is this week and he is still in recovery mode from camp last week, toss in the hot weather and he is a bit of a grumpy butt. This morning I thought a movie might be a good way to cheer him up, especially if its a movie that will surely get him to laugh.
We are going out to see Despicable Me 2 tonight! We both loved the first movie, and have heard good things about this one. Air conditioning, and a movie date night... sounds good to both of us!
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What are some other summer date ideas? I'll have to be more strategic in planning to get advance baby sitting requests in to others. Would love to have some more ideas. Especially budget friendly ideas, and even baby friendly ideas if they work for taking her with us!
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Baby in a Carrier
My older sister kindly sent her baby carriers to me when my Mom went out to Ontario after Everly was born. My Mom's suitcase was actually crammed full of baby items for me that were handed down to me by my sister. In that suitcase was an older organic brown Ergo.
Now, my older sister could be a super model, she is the opposite of my body type. I am plus size, so I was very apprehensive about trying out any baby carriers. I was able to get an extender to use with the waist belt to make it larger to go around my waist, I don't really need it, but it makes it more comfortable on my waist and hips.
I love the Ergo carrier, it is super comfy to wear, and I have been able to use it with Everly since she was a newborn thanks to the infant insert. When I first had her there were several times when I put her in it just so I could blow-dry my hair and actually feel pulled together for once.
It was one of the first items I packed to take with me to Anvil, and I am so glad I did. After her lack of sleep the first night the poor girl was super tired and grumpy the next day. However, she did not want to be put down. I don't blame her with being in a new environment. She fell asleep several times during the week while in the carrier. I did not mind at all, I loved the cuddle time with her. She would spread out and take up as much room across me as possible and just relax. I could always tell when she had fallen asleep because I could feel her relax and the weight shift in her.
This carrier was a life saver this past week. I could plunk her in it and know she was going to be comfortable in the carrier, and that I would be comfy with her on me. I was able to have my hands free and eat meals, or help with different things going on around the camp. It is so easy to put on, and I do not get a back ache while wearing it. I brought my Moby wrap to the camp as well, but I only used it once as I did not feel as comfortable with it on.
Going to try to use this carrier even more now, it may find a home in the car so that I always have it when I am out and about with Everly.
Saturday, July 6, 2013
Anvil Island
We survived summer camp with a 6 month old! We returned this afternoon from camp 1 at Anvil Island. I have been attending the summer camp there since I was 9, first as a camper, and now as a part of the staff. Jason became involved with the camp there when we were dating. Its a big part of our summer and I was determined to go with Everly. I was told several times over that I was crazy for wanting to attempt to do this, but I knew I was not attempting this with the youngest infant to go to one of the summer camps.
The camp week had a holiday theme, each day was a different holiday. Easter, Christmas, Valentines Day (Single Awareness Day), New Years, and St Patricks Day. Instead of trying to find outfits to match the theme days for myself, I found stuff only for Everly. I checked out the clearance sections of stores throughout the year before camp, and also found a few things used for her to wear.The morning we had to go to the boat dock was a little chaotic with packing the vehicles, and making sure we had everything. Everly woke up at 4:30am that day, and it worked great for her to be fed, and for all of us to hit the road.
My role that week was mostly to watch my daughter, but whenever she was napping or I had the opportunity I tried to bounce around to different groups and help them out.
Everly was very popular during the week. Everyone showed so much love towards her, which made the week so much easier for me.
The first night though, by 2am I was texting Jason (when I was able to find a cell service in my cabin) and telling him I was going home in the morning with munchkin. Everly was up every hour that night, and permanently awake by 3:30am, I did not get much sleep that first night, and when I do not get enough sleep I am the grumpiest person out there. Thankfully I was able to get a nap in.
Everly has never been a major cuddly baby, she has always been very independent. This week though I got to enjoy lots of cuddles from her as she really liked being in the Ergo carrier, and it worked great for her to fall asleep in if there were activities going on that I still wanted to see, she was able to just fall asleep right there. I will gladly take cuddles when I get them!
Whenever we had the chance we made sure Everly got tummy time to play, this often happened when in the back of the chapel, we thought for sure she was going to start to crawl this week. It has not happened just yet, but she has taken a few "steps" forward when trying to get to her toys she wants, or other items that are around. It won't be long now!
Everly got to finish up trying green beans, and started trying butternut squash this past week. So far she does not seem to be a picky eater, she loves her food! Between that, and wanting almost 8oz when she has a bottle now, she is one well fed little girl. The nice thing is its getting more spread out, meaning she can go longer between feeds. Its also really nice to have her sit at the table with us during meals now and she gets to have her little meal.
As a precaution I got noise cancelling headphones for Everly. I highly recommend them if you go to a church that plays loud music, or to sporting events. The camp does an emergency test at the beginning of camp to make sure everyone knows how to respond if there is an emergency. We were standing right beside the siren that blares, and Everly did not flinch when it started.
Best purchase before the camp, was the jogging stroller we found used for a great deal. It made going around the camp with Everly, and the diaper bag so much easier. We are planning to sell it as we hope it will help someone else this summer as we have no intentions of using it again. It does make me consider getting a better quality jogging stroller for in the future, those big tires sure do come in handy!
I did over pack for Everly. Which is good to know since we will be going for a week long trip again next month. I now know what to pack for that trip. I packed just enough diapers though! I still hate disposable diapers, but I like the ones from the Honest Company. No diaper rash, but as can be expected with disposables we had 2 blow outs. Glad I brought laundry detergent with me to hand wash a few things if needed.Would I do this again? Most definitely! I feel very strongly that we are to be a part of Anvil still, even with a little one. It does take a unique mindset, and willingness to be able to do it. The first night I was a wreck because of a lack of sleep, but it got much better. I couldn't have done it without Jason, who is such an amazing, helpful, father to Everly. I will always have memories of how loved my daughter was by so many others at camp. I hope that will be something that she continues to know in the years to come at Anvil.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
My Little Girl
My little girl will be 6 months old this Friday. It seems we just welcomed her into this world at 7 lbs and 7 ounces, she was 20 inches in length. Now my little girl is almost 18 lbs and is 28 inches in length. She is getting so tall, so quickly that we are having to look for the next car seat already. It really comes as no surprise to me, as apparently I got tall very quickly and filled out quickly too.
She will always be my little girl, I will always see that little face with eyes filled with wonder staring back at me. I've cuddled her lots this past week in pure awe and wonderment. I've even shed a few tears while holding her, this time is going by way too quickly.
In celebration of her reaching her half birthday I want to share her birth story. If you are not one for details on labour and delivery then continue reading no further.
The story of Everly's birth...
On the evening of December 27th, Jason and I had decided to go on a date night as we were not sure if we'd be able to get another in any time soon. We'd actually crammed in a few date nights when my due date was approaching, and a this one after it passed. There had been controversy since day one as to what my due date was, either the 21st or the 27th of December.
I had been craving the honey mustard dipping sauce and chicken from Red Robins, I had not had many cravings during the whole pregnancy, but near the end this was one of them and I finally caved and begged for us to go. We actually got seated at the same table where we had lunch together on our first date. During all of dinner I felt a little off. I did not think much of it then, but realize now that it was signs of impending labour. I felt a cramp feeling occasionally during dinner. Jason asked me a few times if I was okay, but I just shrugged it off as some more pain. I'd been in constant pain for awhile because the pregnancy had caused my pelvic bones to separate too much.
We went home that evening and relaxed, we also took a few more tummy photos near the Christmas tree that we had not bothered to take down yet. I sure did not have the energy to do so. Little did we know that those would be the last tummy photos. We settled in for the night. I did not sleep well, I woke up every couple hours, and soon every hour with more cramp pains. Still for whatever reason it was not registering with me to keep track and pay attention to what was going on. Eventually I just surrendered and waddled my way downstairs to curl up on the couch and watch the news. It was then that I started keeping tack of what was going on with an app I had on my ipod. Jason had to work that morning, but was checking in on me.
Soon enough I said that I thought I should call the hospital and see what the thought about what was going on. I had been told that I needed to go to the hospital early so that I could have a few rounds of medication as my strep test had come back positive during a recent doctor's visit. In order to make sure all was well with baby, and that she did not get an infection I needed this medication when in labour. I got told to get my butt down there. Jason contacted his manager and informed work that he would not be able to continue his shift for the day, baby was coming. We packed the car up, and left the house for the last time as a family of two.
Our dreams of becoming a family with a child were about to come true. All the heartache from having a miscarriage at the beginning of the year, was about to be filled with so much joy with the arrival of our daughter at the end of the year. The moments of fear we had several times over during this pregnancy, from moments where we could not feel any movement, or moments when the technicians could not find her lung or a part of her heart, all of this was about to be replaced with the fears that come from being new parents. Fear that we will always have, but its a good fear.
I was nervous, and afraid, but my heart was full of so much excitement for what was to come. Overwhelmed with anticipation to hold my little girl, and to see her face.
The early stages of labour were fine. I was admitted quickly at the hospital, which was odd for a full moon I was told. Apparently babies like to make their entrance into the world around the full moon. I had several nurses check in on me. I started with the doctor who I had seen regularly for my prenatal visits. Her shift was coming to an end, and another doctor who I had also seen on a few occasion came in to see me. We had made lots of calls, and sent several text messages to let people know. Some how though in all of the craziness we still missed some people, our apologies. My Mom said she'd come and join me when she was done work in the afternoon. Thank you to those who gave us gift cards to Tim Horton's, those sure came in handy, especially for lunch when Jason was hungry.
During the time I was waiting, trying to get through the pain of contractions. I went in with an open mind about pain relief. I would try my best to get through it naturally, but I was open to things like laughing gas, and an epidural. I do not have a high pain tolerance, I actually get ill when I am in a lot of pain, or I pass out.
The laughing gas and morphine combo I had was interesting, apparently I became very talkative. I actually had a bit of a panic attack with the laughing gas, I am very claustrophobic so they had to switch the way I was able to inhale the laughing gas from just using a face mask, to this weird tube thing. It gave me something to focus on during each contraction.
By the time my Mom arrived, and a bit after I was feeling everything and it was getting harder to handle, the morphine had warn off, and the laughing gas was not helping. At some point my water broke when I got up from a chair. The doctor came to check me again and by then I was really hurting and decided it was time for an epidural. The anesthesiologist could not have come at a more perfect time. I was able to get an epidural right around 6 or 7 centimeters. After having the epidural I was able to relax much more, because of that, things progressed much more quickly. It was already evening time.
The doctor had checked me earlier, and had been concerned that the baby was turned the wrong direction, that she was posterior. The doctor had me move around several ways, and was eventually sure that the baby had moved to the position that she wanted her in.
At some point it was noted that meconium was present in the amniotic fluids. Around this time, a monitor had been attached to our daughter's head so they could monitor her heart-rate. Her heart rate had been dropping and rising back up for awhile, concern had been expressed that she was either pressing on her umbilical cord of it was wrapped around her some how. Everything started to become a bit of a blur.
My doctor was called back in, and suddenly there were many more nurses in the room. . At one point I was being told a c-section was going to be needed because of my daughter's heart rate not returning to normal and it was continuing to decrease. At some point verbal consent was even asked for as they were still trying to round up the papers for a c-section. Thankfully the doctor checked me again and I was fully dilated, I was told that I needed to push and that the baby needed to come out quickly. After a bit of pushing, a vacuum was used to aid in helping get my daughter delivered quickly. Something that I didn't really want used, but in that moment you do not care, you want your child safe, if it meant the vacuum or a c-section I did not care then. Just get my child here, and safe.
Everything seemed to happen so quickly, within 30 minutes of pushing, our daughter arrived. She entered this world posterior, with the umbilical cord up and over her shoulder and a bit around her neck. This was the reason for her decreasing heart rate. They did not want her to cry for fear she may get more fluids or any meconium in her lungs or system. Thankfully she was not a green baby. The doctor and nurse commented on how I could have had her here in as a little as 15 minutes if she was not facing the wrong direction, good to know for future deliveries if we are blessed with more children.
She was placed on me for what felt like not even a minute before she was quickly taken to the side to be checked. I did not even know that Jason got to cut the umbilical cord with all the frenzy going on around our daughter. Jason told me later that evening. During the delivery I had said that I felt like I was going to be sick several times. After our daughter was taken off me and to the side, I said it once more and turned to my side and was sick, all over my Mom. Sorry Mom.
Jason kept a watchful eye over our little one. He saw the bump on her head from the vacuum, I thankfully never saw this as I would have burst into tears at the sight of it, the photos still make me sad. They put a little white hat on her head, this helped hide it from me. Once again my daughter was placed back into my arms. She was alert and looking right at me. I'll never for get that little moment. It felt like she was piercing through my soul, trying to take everything in, yet it also seemed like she already knew me. It was like her eyes were begging me to love her. Don't worry little girl, you were loved the moment we found out we were expecting you. You are so very much loved.
Everly Anne Janelle Goyette, was here at 9:36pm on December 28, 2012. All 7lbs and 7 ounces, and 20 inches of her. Her cute little squished face from entering this world the wrong way. She was set to do thing her own way from the start.I held her and cried tears of joy.
Her arrival is a defining moment in our lives, we are parents now. We were now a family of 3.
She was checked over by the doctor and a pediatrician. We were told she was perfect. We were told that the swelling around her eye would go down, and that it was normal. We were told her lump and bruising on her head would take awhile to go away, and that it is normal. It was not until later in the evening when I tried nursing her several times that we knew something was just not right. Every time Everly tried to nurse she ended up choking and throwing up. We called the nurses in every time asking for help, begging for help, desperate to know what was going on. Only to be told it was normal.
Everly would not sleep that night unless she was in someones arms, she spent most of that first night curled up in her Daddy's arms so that I could try and get some rest. Jason never left his little girl's side, he was so concerned for her. He showed me then and there the type of father he would be, totally committed to our little girl. She already had him wrapped around her little fingers, all ten perfect little fingers.
If its even possible the next day I fell even more in love with this little girl. She has taken over ever corner of my heart. We went home after 24 hours, looking back I wish we had stayed longer. We were sick of the hospital, we wanted to be home with our daughter. I will always remember the car ride home. How nervous we were to be returning to life outside the hospital, with someone so little that we were responsible for.
Sure she has come into this world with some challenges, reflux and a squinky eye, but she is our perfect and unique little girl. We cannot imagine not having her in our lives, she has made our lives so much more. Everly is a true blessing to us.
Life together continues, and we continue to write new chapters each day in the story of our family of 3. Page by page we will write this adventure...
She will always be my little girl, I will always see that little face with eyes filled with wonder staring back at me. I've cuddled her lots this past week in pure awe and wonderment. I've even shed a few tears while holding her, this time is going by way too quickly.
In celebration of her reaching her half birthday I want to share her birth story. If you are not one for details on labour and delivery then continue reading no further.
The story of Everly's birth...
On the evening of December 27th, Jason and I had decided to go on a date night as we were not sure if we'd be able to get another in any time soon. We'd actually crammed in a few date nights when my due date was approaching, and a this one after it passed. There had been controversy since day one as to what my due date was, either the 21st or the 27th of December.
I had been craving the honey mustard dipping sauce and chicken from Red Robins, I had not had many cravings during the whole pregnancy, but near the end this was one of them and I finally caved and begged for us to go. We actually got seated at the same table where we had lunch together on our first date. During all of dinner I felt a little off. I did not think much of it then, but realize now that it was signs of impending labour. I felt a cramp feeling occasionally during dinner. Jason asked me a few times if I was okay, but I just shrugged it off as some more pain. I'd been in constant pain for awhile because the pregnancy had caused my pelvic bones to separate too much.
We went home that evening and relaxed, we also took a few more tummy photos near the Christmas tree that we had not bothered to take down yet. I sure did not have the energy to do so. Little did we know that those would be the last tummy photos. We settled in for the night. I did not sleep well, I woke up every couple hours, and soon every hour with more cramp pains. Still for whatever reason it was not registering with me to keep track and pay attention to what was going on. Eventually I just surrendered and waddled my way downstairs to curl up on the couch and watch the news. It was then that I started keeping tack of what was going on with an app I had on my ipod. Jason had to work that morning, but was checking in on me.
Soon enough I said that I thought I should call the hospital and see what the thought about what was going on. I had been told that I needed to go to the hospital early so that I could have a few rounds of medication as my strep test had come back positive during a recent doctor's visit. In order to make sure all was well with baby, and that she did not get an infection I needed this medication when in labour. I got told to get my butt down there. Jason contacted his manager and informed work that he would not be able to continue his shift for the day, baby was coming. We packed the car up, and left the house for the last time as a family of two.
Our dreams of becoming a family with a child were about to come true. All the heartache from having a miscarriage at the beginning of the year, was about to be filled with so much joy with the arrival of our daughter at the end of the year. The moments of fear we had several times over during this pregnancy, from moments where we could not feel any movement, or moments when the technicians could not find her lung or a part of her heart, all of this was about to be replaced with the fears that come from being new parents. Fear that we will always have, but its a good fear.
The early stages of labour were fine. I was admitted quickly at the hospital, which was odd for a full moon I was told. Apparently babies like to make their entrance into the world around the full moon. I had several nurses check in on me. I started with the doctor who I had seen regularly for my prenatal visits. Her shift was coming to an end, and another doctor who I had also seen on a few occasion came in to see me. We had made lots of calls, and sent several text messages to let people know. Some how though in all of the craziness we still missed some people, our apologies. My Mom said she'd come and join me when she was done work in the afternoon. Thank you to those who gave us gift cards to Tim Horton's, those sure came in handy, especially for lunch when Jason was hungry.
During the time I was waiting, trying to get through the pain of contractions. I went in with an open mind about pain relief. I would try my best to get through it naturally, but I was open to things like laughing gas, and an epidural. I do not have a high pain tolerance, I actually get ill when I am in a lot of pain, or I pass out.
The laughing gas and morphine combo I had was interesting, apparently I became very talkative. I actually had a bit of a panic attack with the laughing gas, I am very claustrophobic so they had to switch the way I was able to inhale the laughing gas from just using a face mask, to this weird tube thing. It gave me something to focus on during each contraction.
By the time my Mom arrived, and a bit after I was feeling everything and it was getting harder to handle, the morphine had warn off, and the laughing gas was not helping. At some point my water broke when I got up from a chair. The doctor came to check me again and by then I was really hurting and decided it was time for an epidural. The anesthesiologist could not have come at a more perfect time. I was able to get an epidural right around 6 or 7 centimeters. After having the epidural I was able to relax much more, because of that, things progressed much more quickly. It was already evening time.
The doctor had checked me earlier, and had been concerned that the baby was turned the wrong direction, that she was posterior. The doctor had me move around several ways, and was eventually sure that the baby had moved to the position that she wanted her in.
At some point it was noted that meconium was present in the amniotic fluids. Around this time, a monitor had been attached to our daughter's head so they could monitor her heart-rate. Her heart rate had been dropping and rising back up for awhile, concern had been expressed that she was either pressing on her umbilical cord of it was wrapped around her some how. Everything started to become a bit of a blur.
My doctor was called back in, and suddenly there were many more nurses in the room. . At one point I was being told a c-section was going to be needed because of my daughter's heart rate not returning to normal and it was continuing to decrease. At some point verbal consent was even asked for as they were still trying to round up the papers for a c-section. Thankfully the doctor checked me again and I was fully dilated, I was told that I needed to push and that the baby needed to come out quickly. After a bit of pushing, a vacuum was used to aid in helping get my daughter delivered quickly. Something that I didn't really want used, but in that moment you do not care, you want your child safe, if it meant the vacuum or a c-section I did not care then. Just get my child here, and safe.
Everything seemed to happen so quickly, within 30 minutes of pushing, our daughter arrived. She entered this world posterior, with the umbilical cord up and over her shoulder and a bit around her neck. This was the reason for her decreasing heart rate. They did not want her to cry for fear she may get more fluids or any meconium in her lungs or system. Thankfully she was not a green baby. The doctor and nurse commented on how I could have had her here in as a little as 15 minutes if she was not facing the wrong direction, good to know for future deliveries if we are blessed with more children.
She was placed on me for what felt like not even a minute before she was quickly taken to the side to be checked. I did not even know that Jason got to cut the umbilical cord with all the frenzy going on around our daughter. Jason told me later that evening. During the delivery I had said that I felt like I was going to be sick several times. After our daughter was taken off me and to the side, I said it once more and turned to my side and was sick, all over my Mom. Sorry Mom.
Everly Anne Janelle Goyette, was here at 9:36pm on December 28, 2012. All 7lbs and 7 ounces, and 20 inches of her. Her cute little squished face from entering this world the wrong way. She was set to do thing her own way from the start.I held her and cried tears of joy.Her arrival is a defining moment in our lives, we are parents now. We were now a family of 3.
She was checked over by the doctor and a pediatrician. We were told she was perfect. We were told that the swelling around her eye would go down, and that it was normal. We were told her lump and bruising on her head would take awhile to go away, and that it is normal. It was not until later in the evening when I tried nursing her several times that we knew something was just not right. Every time Everly tried to nurse she ended up choking and throwing up. We called the nurses in every time asking for help, begging for help, desperate to know what was going on. Only to be told it was normal.
Everly would not sleep that night unless she was in someones arms, she spent most of that first night curled up in her Daddy's arms so that I could try and get some rest. Jason never left his little girl's side, he was so concerned for her. He showed me then and there the type of father he would be, totally committed to our little girl. She already had him wrapped around her little fingers, all ten perfect little fingers.
If its even possible the next day I fell even more in love with this little girl. She has taken over ever corner of my heart. We went home after 24 hours, looking back I wish we had stayed longer. We were sick of the hospital, we wanted to be home with our daughter. I will always remember the car ride home. How nervous we were to be returning to life outside the hospital, with someone so little that we were responsible for.
Sure she has come into this world with some challenges, reflux and a squinky eye, but she is our perfect and unique little girl. We cannot imagine not having her in our lives, she has made our lives so much more. Everly is a true blessing to us.
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